From Ring to Reception

{real wedding} Stephanie + Brian

2012-01-18T11:10:00.000-08:00

It's not often I can say I love everything about a wedding. However, this is one of those rare occasions where I loooovvvveeeed every detail, from the mis-matched yet coordinating bridesmaid dresses in shades of gray (my current favorite color), to the "&" accents, to the "mugglies", to the guys in bowties. Don't believe me? See for yourself...

Ribbon wands for the recessional & the programs designed by the graphic designer groom.
Don't miss their awesome invitation suite here.

Bowties!

LOVED this idea. The bride's stepmom hunted down each and every mug...she scoured thrift stores & swap meets for months!

Love quiet moments of prayer & reflection before the ceremony...

The expectant groom...

The stunning & joyful bride...

The weather was a little warm but the view...seriously???
Couldn't have been better.

Even the babies had bowties!

Love this...

The centerpieces were so detailed...each a little different.

Cheers to the Mugglies!

The MC for the night & friend of the bride

Who doesn't love mountains of doughnuts?!

I'm tellin' ya, this bride thought of everything!

yes, that's me (2nd from the left) getting my dance on

Beautiful bling...

Congrats! All your hard work paid off...you had one AWESOME wedding day.

And this one tops it all off...I just love the excitement!

Venue: Upper Las Virgenes Open Space (formerly Ahmanson Ranch)
Catering: Jay's Catering
Photographer: Evoke Photography
Ceremony Music: Andrea Hamilton
DJ: Grace Sadior
MC: Holly Tuggy
Videographer: Blue Orb Productions
Florist: Fairytale Flowers by Kirsten
Lighting: Ambiance Party Lighting
Doughnuts: The Donut Man
Bride's Hair & Makeup: Dollhouse Hair and Makeup Design

Priscilla of Boston Closes Its Doors

2012-01-06T12:29:00.001-08:00

Sad news from one of America's greatest bridal shops...

Do you think it's because of this unfortunate incident??

Priscilla Of Boston Spray-Paints Unsold Wedding Gowns To Keep Them From Grubby Poor People
By Laura Northrup on January 5, 2012

Priscilla of Boston, a high-end bridal chain best known for making Grace Kelly's wedding gown, came to an undignified end last week when current parent company David's Bridal shut it down. This news wouldn't have made national headlines if an alert shopper in a Minneapolis suburb hadn't noticed unsold dresses by the rackful being wrecked with red spray paint and tossed in a dumpster.Yes, it's wasteful and appalling. David's Bridal claims that the gowns, most of which retailed for more than your first car, couldn't be donated due to contractual obligations to high-end designers. Worried about the "brand dilution," the suppliers don't want their brand-new gowns filling a thrift store rack, or, evidently, being worn by poor people.

In an initial statement, David's Bridal explained:

“Priscilla of Boston has always donated quality bridal gowns to a variety of charitable causes. We do not, however, donate unsaleable dresses that are damaged, soiled or in otherwise poor condition.”

Your helpful bridal fashion hint for today: avoid spray-painting unworn gowns in order to keep them out of "poor condition."

David's later issued another statement to NBC's Today show, claiming that they would try to salvage some gowns for brides in need.

“While it has been Priscilla of Boston's policy not to make donations of sample dresses that are in poor condition, we recognize that some of these dresses could possibly have gone to worthy causes. David's Bridal has already begun bringing together all of the remaining Priscilla of Boston gowns to evaluate them and ensure that they are donated to our charitable partners wherever possible.”

Source - The Consumerist

Favorites of 2011 - Celebrity Weddings

2012-01-06T12:20:00.000-08:00

Prince William + Kate Middleton
Ah, Prince William...like any other daughter of the 80's I grew up with a teeny {massive} crush on the Prince. It was so fun {heartbreaking} seeing him tie the knot to the gorgeous {seriously, gorgeous} Kate. sigh. I love a real life fairy tale! Dress: Sarah Burton at Alexander McQueen

Venue: Westminster Abbey

Niecy Nash + Jay Tucker
I watched Niecy Nash's Wedding Bash on TLC and loved seeing her spunky personality...not to mention all the gorgeous details!
Dress: Ines DiSanto
Venue: Church Estate Vineyards, Malibu

Lauren Bush + David Lauren
Dress: Ralph Lauren (of course)

I love that their photo looks so vintage. You know you're in for one darn good party when the bride is President Bush's niece and the groom is Ralph Lauren's son.
Do you think anyone advised her against the marriage because her name is now Lauren Lauren?

Venue: Ralph Lauren's Double RL Ranch, Colorado

Molly Sims + Scott Stuber

Dress: Marchesa

Her bridesmaid dresses were my all-time favorite of the year! I love the color palette, for one, and the way they're all so unique but coordinate so well is just beautiful.

Venue: Napa Valley

Miranda Lambert + Blake Shelton
This couple has had an amazing year...They both won CMA's for Male/Female Artist! Talk about a power couple...and they're so adorable!
Dress: Bride's Grandmother's Gunne Sax 1979 wedding dress
Venue: Kendell Creek at the Don Strange Ranch

Paul McCartney + Nancy Shevell

Dress: Stella McCartney (of course)

Venue: Old Marylebone Town Hall in London &
McCartney's St. John's Wood home

Gene Simmons + Shannon Tweed - after 28 years of being together!

Dress: Priscilla of Boston

I actually love "Gene Simmons Family Jewels"on A&E;
they're surprisingly normal & very entertaining.

Venue: Beverly Hills Hotel

Source: Celebrity Bride Guide

Gift Guide: Ebelskivers!

2012-01-06T12:17:00.000-08:00

I don't know about you, but I LOVE shopping for wedding gifts. Printing out the registry, searching the aisles until I find the perfect gift...it's like a scavenger hunt! Or maybe you're the over-achieving-type...I remember my mom would always keep a few waffle irons in her closet as her go-to wedding gift...smart, right? Though that method helps you out in a pinch, I prefer to put in some time and pick out something fun.

I'm highly aware that not everyone loves shopping as much as I do, so if the thought of picking out a wedding gift causes you to break out in a sweat, here's a fail-proof guide to the wedding gift.

I try to stick with a theme...all kitchen items, bathroom accessories, etc. I usually buy one main gift and throw in a few smaller items; I personally enjoy opening a few things versus only one.

As an avid breakfast-lover, I would DIE to get a gift like this...Who doesn't love pancake balls that you can fill with yummy things like chocolate, fruit & jam? mmmmmmmm

So there you have it! Get the pan, some ebelskiver pancake mix, the ebelskiver cookbook & those clever flipping tools & voila! You have a thoughtful gift for the bride & groom. And if you want to be really clever, add in a gift certificate to a local restaurant that serves said ebelskivers (like Valhalla in downtown Visalia).
Bon apetit!

Photo Source: Williams-Sonoma

Goodbye 2011...Hello 2012!

2012-01-05T19:30:00.001-08:00

I can't believe it's already 2012! I had so much fun reliving 2011's weddings...here are a few of my favorites! Enjoy!

Becca Saucedo Photography

Becker Photography

Troy Grover

Kara Layne

Mary Rosenbaum Photographs

Here's to a great 2012!

{real wedding} Shannon + Matthew

2011-12-28T13:52:00.000-08:00

This wedding is especially close to my heart since it's my little sister's Big Day! On August 19, 2011 she said I Do at a gorgeous venue by a rushing river in Central California.

A beautiful poem my mom read during the ceremony...

Love the shoes!

She couldn't stop smiling all day!

Mmmm...this cake was not only beautiful, it was delicious! Alternating tiers of strawberry cake w/butter cream filling & lemon cake w/raspberry filling.
And I LOVE their cake stand! It was literally cut from a tree and hand-carved for them by a friend.

M for Moulton!

Shannon & her best friend since kindergarten, Sarah...

Grandma...

Aunts & Uncles...

Father of the Bride...

Sisters...

Mother of the Bride...

Mother of the Groom...

The Groom's Family

One of the idyllic photo ops on the property

The famous bathtub shot!

Shan's lovely bouquet had white roses, peacock feathers & kale

They're just so cute! Congrats you two!!
Love you!!!!!

Venue & Catering: The White Horse Inn, Three Rivers
Photographer: Friend of the Bride
Cake: Creative Cakes
Bridal Bouquet & Boutonniere: Sweet Memories
Entertainment: Friends of the Bride & Groom

31 Bits Bridal

2011-10-17T19:25:00.000-07:00

I LOVE 31 Bits...I've blogged about them before and now they have a bridal line! Check out their beautiful pieces and support a wonderful organization here.

{feature} Events by Heather Ham ~ Jennifer + Cliff

2011-10-15T21:41:00.000-07:00

In August I had the opportunity to assist my friend Heather Ham with a wedding at the lovely Rancho Las Lomas in Silverado. She volunteered her time as a coordinator for the amazing organization Wish Upon A Wedding. Check out the beauty of the day...

A-dor-able flower girls & ring bearers...these guys had moves, too!
They were dancing down the aisle!

I loved the zebra cookie favors! A nod to the beautiful zebras that reside at Rancho.

I loved the kids table! Such a great idea to have activities to keep little hands occupied, while making them feel extra special at the same time!

Coordination: Events by Heather Ham
Venue: Rancho Las Lomas
Catering: 24 Carrots
Photographer: Cakes & Kisses
Cake: Fantasy Frostings
DJ: Kicks Band & Entertainment
Lighting: Aspect Lighting
Photobooth: Fab Photobooth
Florist: Art With Nature

{feature}

2011-08-18T11:59:00.000-07:00

I'm so excited to be featured on Engaged & Inspired with the amazing Troy Grover! See the post here.

The First Dance

2011-08-10T20:26:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite scenes from one of my favorite movies (The Wedding Planner) is when Matthew McConaughey & Bridgette Wilson are in the car with J Lo, trying to pick out a First Dance song...and "I Honestly Love You" by Olivia Newton John comes on...which, as we all know, puts them in the 6th month divorce window. Hilarious!

Oh, and if you really love "I Honestly Love You"...forget J Lo & rock it with style!

Here are some classics to get the process started...

And one of my favorite artists...

{feature} Events by Heather Ham

2011-08-10T19:29:00.000-07:00

A few months ago I had the privilege of assisting my friend Heather with one of her weddings. It was a fabulous soiree in the backyard of what I call a "Father of the Bride home"...it was even in Pasadena & Father of the Bride was set in San Marino. ;) I love all the personal details. Check out the feature on Hostess with the Mostess!

{real wedding} Marla + Nick

2011-08-08T21:30:00.000-07:00

Marla + Nick had a gorgeous wedding on a perfect July evening. Bella Collina was the perfect backdrop for their I Do's. I had such a great time working with them; they were so sweet and had such a fun group of friends and family. Congratulations you two!

I love Bella Collina's wine barrel tables.

Good lookin' guys

Going over final details

Wishing Tree

Marla was stunning!

Lovely ladies

I love the color combination in the florals; the dusty rose & cream is so soft & romantic.

Such a fun bridal party!

So gorgeous...

Marla & Nick gave cigars to special guests...such a nice touch.

Love this!

Venue: Bella Collina
Florist: SunKissed Design
DJ & Photobooth: KIK Entertainment
Photographer: Troy & Aimee Grover
Caterer & Cake: Jay's Catering

{engaged} Steph + Brian

2011-08-08T21:21:00.000-07:00

These are some of the cutest engagement shots ever! Evoke Photography did a great job capturing the fun personalities of this couple...Steph + Brian are getting married this weekend at the Ahmanson Ranch.

Check them out! Here

And check out this cute stop motion Here

Happy Anniversary!

2011-07-23T10:16:00.001-07:00

One year ago today Brooke + Jaime were married at Rancho Capistrano. And now they have a beautiful baby boy!! Congratulations you two!

{real wedding} Andrea + Tom

2011-07-14T23:13:00.000-07:00

Last Saturday was Andrea + Tom's wedding day at Arroyo Trabuco. The day was P E R F E C T. The Bride = Gorgeous. The Groom = Stud. See for yourself!

Love the lighting on this one...

The Bride's sisters (one of whom is OC Prop Girl!) set up this great cigar bar...

Congrats you two!!

Venue: Arroyo Trabuco
Ceremony Music: String Quartet with Laurel Jones
Photographer: Becker & Joe Photo
Videographer: Danny Lipinski
Florist: Petals by Kimarie
DJ: Atmosphere Entertainment
Bride's Hair & Makeup: Cheek Couture
Cake: It's All About the Cake
Chivari Chairs: Persiano Rentals

Venue Spotlight: Arroyo Trabuco

2011-07-06T15:56:00.000-07:00

This Saturday I have the privilege of coordinating Andrea + Tom's wedding at Arroyo Trabuco. It's conveniently located in South Orange County in Mission Viejo, at the end of Avery Parkway.

It's serene and peaceful, surrounded by natural beauty. I love venues that have both indoor & outdoor space. There's a beautiful garden for your ceremony, a patio for cocktail hour and a ballroom for dinner and dancing. It's so nice for guests to have a good flow to the evening, only steps away from their next destination.

Great photo ops all around

O'Neills Bar & Grill

Lovely Bride's room

Great ballroom...love the beamed ceiling.

{real wedding} Kari + Eric

2011-07-01T15:13:00.001-07:00

June 25th couldn't have been a more perfect day for a wedding at Franciscan Gardens! Every detail was thought of...touches of citrus in the centerpieces, the Italian pizzelle cookies & biscotti made by the Bride's grandmother, the chalkboard accents throughout, the wedding photos of grandparents & parents. Beauty was everywhere & love was in the air!

I love that my job allows me to meet wonderful people...like the very sweet & very talented Kara Layne. She captured their day beautifully!

Gotta love the yellow shoes...

So much emotion was felt throughout the day...

Miss Kari was stunning in her gown!

Ah, love!

The pair really loves life...
you have to smile just being around them.

Everyone loves a candy buffet!

Lovely details...

I love an exit with sparklers! Congrats you two! So glad I could share in your special day.

Venue ~ Franciscan Gardens
Caterer ~ 24 Carrots
Florist ~ Kathe Hayden
DJ ~ John Archuleta
Photographer ~ Kara Layne
Videographer ~ Braven Carver
Cake ~ Cinnamon Productions
Bride's Hair ~ Alexa from Eli Alexander Salon

{sneak peek} Kari + Eric

2011-06-26T22:00:00.000-07:00

Last night I had the privilege of coordinating a wedding for a couple who is lovely in every way. They are beautiful inside & out, completely in love with each other and God who brought them together. It was a pleasure to coordinate their Big Day!

See what I mean?! Sweet Kari + Eric

I loved their chalkboard details...table numbers, seating chart, and reception signs

Their lovely thumbprint tree

Sweets! And delicious Italian pizelle cookies & biscotti made by the Grandmother of the Bride

I love my job!!!

Venue: Franciscan Gardens

{real wedding} Rochelle + Jeffery

2011-06-26T20:23:00.000-07:00

Rochelle + Jeffery wed on November 13, 2010. Their ceremony was at Crossline Church and the reception was at the Dove Canyon Country Club. A great team of vendors created a spectacular day and I was honored to be a part of it. The Maid of Honor/Bride's sister hired me as a wedding gift. I loved that idea!

Rochelle has such a great personality! You can really see it in these photos.

The beautiful bridal bouquet, personalized with a Tiffany's locket that held vintage pictures of the Bride's late Grandmother

Precious flower girl...love the curls!

Miss Haley, Sister/Maid of Honor

Beautiful exterior of the Dove Canyon Country Club

Yum!

A labor of love from the Mother of the Bride...the incredibly detailed candy buffet.

The centerpieces were actually uplit! How cool is that?

FAVORITE picture!!!

Love the 3 in 1 for her toss bouquet

A very happy Father of the Bride

Vendors:
Ceremony Site ~ Crossline Church
Reception Site ~ Dove Canyon Country Club
Photographer ~ Gillian Crane
DJ ~ Carcano DJ & Lighting
Bride's Dress & Shoes ~ Mon Amie
Menswear ~ Friar Tux
Videographer ~ Greg Magnus
Florist ~ Avante Gardens
Cake ~ It's All About the Cake
Bride's Hair ~ Updo Stylist
Bride's Makeup ~ Tiffany Lee Bymaster
Photo Booth ~ So Cal ShutterBooth
Dessert ~ Boardwalk Bars

Venue Spotlight: Franciscan Gardens

2011-06-21T17:16:00.001-07:00

I cannot wait for this Saturday! I get to coordinate the wedding of Kari + Eric at the gorgeous Franciscan Gardens in San Juan Capistrano. Not only are they a beautiful couple inside & out, their venue is spectacular. Lots of Spanish detail plus beautiful greenery...see for yourself!

Under the pergola is the perfect spot for a King's Table! Love it.

Photo Credits: Kate Noelle, Anne Watson

Save the Date

2011-04-26T20:24:00.001-07:00

My bride & groom Steph + Brian are getting married this August in the coolest spot, deep into the Los Angeles National Park at the former Ahmanson Ranch. Brian is a graphic designer & he created their awesome invitation suite.

By the way, it was featured on Oh, So Beautiful Paper. Yep, he's that good.

Images from Design.org

Venue Spotlight: The Ebell Club, LA

2011-04-17T21:17:00.000-07:00

Saturday I had the privilege of assisting my friend Heather Ham with a wedding at the Ebell Club in LA. We had an awesome team of vendors & the day went beautifully. Pictures to come!

Reese Weds

2011-04-13T23:15:00.000-07:00

I love this shot of Reese Witherspoon & Jim Toth on their wedding day. This moment is probably my favorite of any wedding day...the stress is over, the vows have been said, and two separate people are now one.

Her Monique Lhuillier dress is soft, whimsical and pure beauty.

Photo source: My Fashion Life

Royal Wedding Countdown

2011-04-13T21:46:00.000-07:00

16 days to go! Are you planning a Royal Wedding Party? If so I have the perfect addition for your table! But first, here are a couple pictures of the adorable royal couple...

Wildflower Linens created these beautiful napkin rings...perfect for the royal family & yours.

photo source

31 Bits

2011-04-08T23:56:00.000-07:00

My new favorite jewelry line...31 Bits. The beads are made from recycled paper & each piece is unique, handmade by women in Uganda. You can be stylish & empower women at the same time.

This one is the newest addition to my accessories...

The first day I wore it I got so many compliments! You'll love your 31 Bits, I promise.

Mottsy

2011-04-08T22:15:00.001-07:00

My good friends over at Mottsy have come up with some awesome custom printed products. Use up to 25 different images (like your own photos!) & customize the width & height. Invitations, place cards, thank you cards...you name it, they can make it. Have fun creating!

I love the idea of guests filling out postcards as your guest book...your mom or another responsible friend can put them in the mail every week or so; you'll get sweet notes from guests throughout your first year of marriage! Your engagement pictures can be the backdrop...love it!

BHLDN ~ shoes

2011-04-08T22:09:00.000-07:00

BHLDN for your toes. Diamonds are a girl's best friend? I think not. Shoes it is.

BHLDN ~ maids

2011-04-08T21:35:00.000-07:00

Once again, BHLDN does not disappoint. Gone are the days of hideous bridesmaid dresses, worn once then sentenced to the deepest darkest spot in your closet, never to been seen again.

And while you're at it, pick up one for your engagement party, shower &/or rehearsal dinner.

Anthropologie + Weddings = BHLDN

2011-04-08T21:24:00.000-07:00

I can spend hours in Anthropologie...like so many women across America. I'm sure you'd be quick to agree. Unfortunately I don't always walk out with anything. And I don't mean walk out with stuff, like a shoplifter. In that case it'd actually be a good thing. I mean I don't buy a lot of things from Anthro. Usually they're a little out of my price range.

But these beauties...I think they are worth every penny. Check out the whimsical wonder that is BHLDN (pronouced Beholden).

Dancing Shoes

2011-04-08T20:58:00.001-07:00

If you haven't heard of Toms by now you probably live under a rock. There are many things I love about my Toms. They're stylish, super comfy, and the best part? Every pair you buy means a pair for a child who probably hasn't ever had shoes.

They come out with new designs all the time, and now they can outfit your bridal party! There's bright white, sparkly silver, creamy ivory and a rainbow of colors to match every wedding. Of course the groom has options, too, like classic white, black leather or soft velvet. And don't forget the Tiny Toms for your flower girl & ring bearer!

You don't have to bring an extra pair of dancing shoes...you're already in your comfies!

I love the wedge, too! Great for the bride or her maids.
There's nothing better than a brightly-colored shoe peeking out from underneath a gorgeous wedding gown. Love!

Airstream anyone?

2011-03-17T22:06:00.000-07:00

If you're planning a backyard vintage-y wedding, it won't be complete without one of these...

How incredibly adorable would this be for a dessert station???

Enjoy the possibilities...and rent one here

Caterer Spotlight: Jay's Catering

2011-03-08T21:26:00.000-08:00

Jay's Catering has been around for 40+ years and is a leader in the event industry. They can handle everything you need from corporate breakfasts & lunches, conferences for thousands, authentic ethnic cuisine, holiday fare, specialty stations, complete bar set up or your wedding menu. Enjoy some yummy looking photos...mostly of desserts, since that is my favorite.

Photo Credits: Mary Lallande, Gavin Wade, Mike Colon

{real wedding} Lauren + Tim

2011-03-08T20:13:00.000-08:00

On Saturday, February 26th Lauren & Tim got married. I met Lauren's mom at a venue I used to work at. I shared in her excitement as her daughter got engaged in Paris. As soon as I met Lauren & Tim I loved being around them. You could tell how head over heels in love they were. I was honored to be a part of their wedding day.

Check out this knockout bride & rock star groom...starting with killer purple heels...

I mean, really, this is magazine material right here

The 80's cover band rocked it & the cake pops were delish!
Congrats you two!

Venue: Rancho Las Lomas
Catering: 24 Carrots
Cake: It's All About the Cake
Florals: Marcia Johnson
Photographer: Mary Rosenbaum
Ceremony Music: Naples Chamber Ensembles
80's Cover Band: Neurotic City

Sneak Peek ~ Lauren + Tim

2011-02-28T21:20:00.000-08:00

Saturday was Lauren + Tim's wedding day. The forecast said 100% chance of rain. We had none! It was unbelievable. A picture perfect day for a picture perfect couple. I can't wait to see the rest of the shots...enjoy this one for now.

Photo by Mary Rosenbaum
Venue: Rancho Las Lomas

2011 Bride's Choice Awards!

2011-01-25T10:55:00.000-08:00

Orange County, CA – January 25, 2011 - WeddingWire, the nation’s leading wedding technology company, is thrilled to announce From Ring to Reception has been selected to receive the prestigious annual WeddingWire Bride’s Choice Awards™ 2011 for wedding planning & coordinating!

Recognition for the Bride’s Choice Awards™ 2011 is determined by recent reviews and extensive surveys from over 750,000 WeddingWire newlyweds. Our past clients are among those that shared their experiences on WeddingWire, the largest wedding review site in the nation.

From Ring to Reception stands among the top five percent of wedding professionals in the WeddingWire community, representing quality and service excellence within the wedding industry. Awards were given to the top wedding professionals across 20 service categories, from wedding venues to wedding photographers, and were based on the overall professional achievements throughout the past year.

“WeddingWire is honored to celebrate the success of the top-rated wedding professionals within the WeddingWire community,” said Timothy Chi, WeddingWire’s Chief Executive Officer. “With the annual Bride’s Choice Awards™ program, WeddingWire has the unique opportunity to recognize the best wedding professionals across the US and Canada. We applaud From Ring to Reception for their professionalism and dedication to enhancing the wedding planning experience last year.”

We are happy to announce that From Ring to Reception is among the very best wedding planning & coordinating within the WeddingWire Network, which includes leading wedding planning sites WeddingWire, Martha Stewart Weddings, Project Wedding and Weddingbee. We would like to thank our past clients for nominating us to receive the Bride’s Choice Awards™ 2011.

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Why Hire a Coordinator

2011-01-10T22:23:00.001-08:00

With all the vendors you're hiring for your wedding, is it really all that important to hire a wedding coordinator?

Well... YES! And here's why...

Planning a wedding is a TON of work! You've probably figured this out if you've been through the process. It's such an important day in your life, and there are so many details! You're basically having a gigantic dinner party for a few hundred of your closest friends.

Wedding coordinators do exactly that...they coordinate weddings for a living. While you have one wedding you're planning, they've done hundreds! Weddings are all they think about. They know the tricks of the trade and can assure your Big Day goes as smoothly as possible.

Since they work at so many weddings they have great vendor contacts. They can point you in the right direction of the best venues, photographers, videographers, caterers, florists, invitations, DJs, bands, etc. And, maybe even more importantly, they can point you away from the ones not so great.

Even if you want to handle the planning up until the day of, having a wedding coordinator to check on things like your vendors, ceremony and reception set up, and getting your bridal party wrangled and lined up is quite the undertaking.

Throughout your wedding, vendors may have questions about the timeline or where your second cousin, the vegetarian, is sitting. You don't want to have to hassle with these details during your reception. A wedding coordinator can be the point person, someone you've discussed everything with who can answer everyone's questions for you.

Some brides mistake their venue contact for a coordinator. This person's role is to oversee the venue set up and staff, not to attend to the bride. It's important to have someone there for you.

Every bride I talk to says having a wedding coordinator is the best decision they made. So save yourself some trouble...your day will fly by on its own, you want to be able to enjoy it!

How Sweet It Is

2011-01-10T20:34:00.000-08:00

Candy Bars have become very popular at weddings the past few years. It's a great decorative element for your reception and can either be a sweet treat at the reception or double as a favor. Here are some tips for creating your own!

How Much Candy Will I Need?
When the Candy Bar is first set up it will be a beautiful display, then guests will dig in and you'll want to have enough for replenishing at least once or twice throughout the night.

You can figure on 6 ounces per guest, some they'll eat during the reception and some they'll take home with them. So if you have 200 guests that's 1,200 ounces or 75 pounds.

You can have as many different types as you want, but even if you had two or three your Candy Bar can still look full and beautiful.

Usually 5 pounds of one type of candy is good for each container. Keep in mind the type of candy determines how many containers you'll need. For instance, 5 pounds of chocolate covered pretzels will take up more space than 5 pounds of M&Ms.

When to Buy Your Candy
If you're ordering online, place the order at least six weeks in advance. You don't want added stress of waiting for your candy to arrive!

What Kind of Candy?
Your wedding colors are a great place to start! Wholesale candy websites allow you to search by color. Candy Bars look great when they're color coordinated, even if you just have two colors in mind.

Your theme (if you have one) can dictate the candy choices. Saying "I Do" on the beach? Serve tropical Starbursts, coconut or pineapple Jelly Bellies and chocolate sea shells.

Is your groom's name or your new last name Clark? Serve Clark bars! Hershey Kisses or Hugs are an obvious choice, as well as M&Ms with your names on them--or if you're really lucky and your name starts with an M you can use the regular ones!

Keep in mind the location of your reception. If it's an outdoor wedding in the middle of August, you probably want to stay away from chocolate. Check out these websites:

How Should Guests Take the Candy?
The easiest is a favor bag with a 10-12 ounce capacity, available at any party or craft store. Chinese take out boxes are really cute, or small square boxes. You don't need to give each guest a ton of candy, just enough to appease their sweet tooth. You can personalize these bags or boxes with your new monogram, or just the first letter of your last name.

Set Up
Your life will be easier if you do a trial run at home. Play around with the arrangement of your jars until you get it just right. Once it's perfect, take a picture so set up is a snap.

Some venues allow you to drop off items for your reception the day before. If they're not booked the night before, you might even be able to set up the table early, leaving just the candy to be put out the day of. Your wedding coordinator can set this up for you (if it's part of your arrangement) or you can assign a friend who isn't in the bridal party to set it up. Whatever you do, please do NOT leave this on your or your mom's list of things to do on the Big Day.

Clear apothecary jars, wide-mouthed fish bowls or vases work great for displaying candy. Silver scoops add elegance to your Candy Bar. Consider adding the following elements for decor:

~Engagement pictures, childhood pictures of the bride & groom, a floral arrangement (add this to your list of arrangements from your florist), candles, flower petals, a linen or runner in a corresponding wedding color, a cute wooden sign (like "LOVE"), wooden letters (the bride & groom's initials), stacked books or boxes to add height to the display

If you're serving chocolate, don't put it out until the very last minute. During your cocktail hour would be perfect, if it's at a different location from the reception. You don't want guests digging into melted sweets.

A candy buffet is a great do-it-yourself favor that your guests will love. Everyone likes to feel like a kid in a candy store!

Photos from The Knot

Vendor Organization

2011-01-10T20:18:00.000-08:00

Ever feel like there are just too many details to keep track of for your wedding? It's hard enough to keep track of them yourself, let alone trying to explain things to your bridal party, like that particular shade of pink in your bouquet, or the length of your bridesmaid dresses.

Friend Feed is a great website where you can upload your vendor information and share it with friends and family, like an out of town maid of honor or an inquisitive mother. Guests can comment on your posts and feel a part of the planning process.

Happy Planning!

Dress Preservation

2011-01-10T20:00:00.001-08:00

Your wedding dress is probably the most expensive dress you will ever buy, and whether or not you think your daughter or granddaughter will want to wear it someday, chances are you'd like it to be in good condition for years to come. Here are some tips on what to do with The Dress after your Big Day.

DIY Wedding Dress Details: How to Preserve Your Wedding Dress
The big day's over and your wedding gown, the most expensive item of clothing you've ever bought, is hanging in your closet. What do you do with it now?

After countless hours spent searching for your dream wedding gown (not to mention the dollars spent), you're not going to say goodbye to it as it lays crumpled on the floor of the honeymoon suite, right? Take a moment to remember why you chose this dress in the first place: the daring neckline, the fur-trimmed cuffs, the perfectly plump bustle -- all reasons to save it for posterity (and maybe even so your daughter can enjoy it when she struts down the aisle.)

What Is Gown Preservation?
The special cleaning and packaging techniques called gown preservation ensure your gown maintains its beauty. A professional preservationist will survey your gown: the materials used, ornamentation, and various stains, then formulate a specialized cleaning procedure. After cleaning, your gown is wrapped and placed in a box. Preservationists recommend having your gown cleaned as soon as possible after your wedding because if you wait too long, some stains can set permanently. Keep in mind that if you wait a while, certain materials, such as silk, will be harder to treat -- as will particular stains such as red wine and mud.

Finding a Preservationist
A few weeks before your wedding, you'll need to investigate where to take your gown for cleaning. Ask family members, friends, bridal shops, or your wedding consultant for preservationist referrals, or check out theknot.com/local to find a specialist in your area. Though many dry cleaners claim to clean wedding gowns, most are not specialists. Unless the dry cleaner you are thinking about using processes more than 100 wedding gowns a year, consider going instead to a professional gown preservationist with a noted track record. Keep in mind that if you wait a while to have your gown preserved, certain materials, such as silk, will be harder to treat -- as will particular stains such as red wine and mud.

Cleaning Techniques
Some gown specialists use the wetcleaning method, which consists of gently washing the gown by hand with gentle cleansers that remove noticeable stains and unseen stains, such as champagne and sugar, as well. If left untreated, unseen stains can oxidize and turn yellow over time. Other companies use a more traditional dry-cleaning method, which involves pre-treating the stains and then placing the garment in a dry-cleaning machine. Solvents such as perchloroethylene (perc for short) or petroleum-based cleansers are used as stain removers. Petroleum-based solvents aren't as aggressive as perc, and they're also not as powerful in stain removal, but, due to its high oil content, petroleum nourishes certain fabrics and can give them a lovely sheen.

Wrapping It Up
The correct packaging materials are utterly imperative for guaranteeing the life of your gown. Most gown preservationists highly discourage packing your dress in plastic, because it can cause permanent wrinkles and trap moisture which promotes mildew. Most preservationists agree that white acid-free tissue paper or unbleached muslin are the ideal packaging materials. Ordinary tissue paper contains acid which can literally scorch your gown. Don't use colored tissue paper either. If the box accidentally becomes wet, it could stain your gown.

Packaging for Posterity
To protect your gown, many professionals recommend it be placed in an acid-free or pH-neutral box, such as sturdy paperboard boxes which allow the gown to breathe and adjust with changing temperatures. Some boxes feature a viewing window: a clear panel designed so you can see your gown without opening the box. If your box features a window, look for acetate rather than plastic, and keep the box out of direct light, which can yellow the fabric over time. Some companies utilize boxes with Coroplast, a specially designed plastic known for its durability.

Sealed With a...?
While some companies choose to seal the box to keep out insects and vermin, others say sealing is unnecessary, if the gown is packaged correctly. If you do open the box, remember to use discretion when handling the dress. Don't bother with white gloves. Just make sure you have clean hands, to prevent body oils from invisibly transferring to the gown and causing yellowing over time. Many brides want to include items such as shoes and jewelry in the box, along with the gown. Some preservationists believe these objects may emit damaging fumes and ruin the gown, but others find these can be added if they are cleaned and wrapped separately; for instance, invitations and programs can be placed in acid-free envelopes. Talk to your preservationist who will have an opinion based on the types of materials you'll want to include.

Money Matters
Materials, ornamentation, and degree of stain damage usually determine the preservation price of a gown. Costs vary across the country, with higher prices in metropolitan areas. Expect to pay $200-$400, though prices can go as high as $800 depending on the gown and location.

Know It All
Before choosing a preservationist, do a little detective work. First, find out if the company in question does the work on location or if they ship gowns elsewhere to be cleaned and packaged though don't rule out a company soley because it doesn't do the work in-house, especially if the company has a good, clean record. Second, ask them whether you must sign a release or disclaimer because these documents sometimes state that the company isn't responsible for any damage done to the gown during the cleaning process. You will want to find someone who will guarantee every last bead and sequin. Next, ask if the company offers a warranty and how they will reimburse you if you find the gown to be damaged after a certain number of years. Read the fine print of the agreement: some companies will refund the preservation cost -- not the replacement value of the dress. And consider it a red flag if they claim the warranty is void if you open the box. Finally, beware of companies that give quotes over the phone -- different materials and stains require specialized care. Your gown will receive the best care if it's individually inspected before a price is given.

Before & After
To help maintain the integrity of your gown, there are some things you should not do before sending it to be cleaned and preserved. First, don't wrap your dress in plastic. This can seal in off-gassing vapors and trap moisture, inviting mold and mildew. Don't hang your dress on an ordinary wooden or wire hanger -- the weight of the dress will stretch and distort the weave of the fabric -- try a plactic or padded hanger instead. Don't try to clean the stains yourself -- you risk setting them in the fabric. Once your gown is back from the preservationist, pay attention to storage. Most professionals agree that light and heat play the most damaging roles when it comes to gown preservation. As a guideline, store your preserved gown in a place where you would feel physically comfortable. That rules out a hot attic or damp basement. Under your bed or in a dry closet are your best bets.

But I'm Broke!
If your bank account is dry as a desert post-wedding it is possible to preserve it at home, though it won't be perfect and may retain stains. For storage, professionals recommend wrapping the gown in a white sheet or pre-washed unbleached muslin, and then placing it in a sturdy box under your bed. That way, if you decide to preserve your gown down the road, it will be right there waiting for you.

Source: The Knot

{real wedding} Lyssa Rae + Chase Part 3

2010-12-10T23:04:00.000-08:00

I couldn't help but dedicate another post to the fabulous wedding of Lyssa Rae + Chase. Their Big Day at Bella Collina in San Clemente couldn't have been more picture perfect.

With a bride this gorgeous, you know the photos are going to be amazing.

Making sure I have all the bases covered...

Getting the groom's boutiniere just right...

Seriously...if she wasn't such a sweetheart, I might be a little jealous of Lyssa Rae

I love their favors/placecards...little seed packets!

I'm telling ya, beauty runs in the family...sister/MOH of the bride

Love their ring pillow...and the ring bearer!

Watching the ceremony

Gorgeous day for a wedding!

Don't get me started on the dessert station from Jay's Catering...not only was everything adorable, it was delicious!

Yum...

Going over details with Jay's event captain

Getting everyone lined up for the grand entrance...

Another successful wedding!

Photos courtesy of Mary Jarvis Lallande of Jay's Catering.

Venue Spotlight: Dove Canyon Country Club

2010-12-10T13:41:00.000-08:00

I had the honor of coordinating Rochelle + Jeff's reception at the Dove Canyon Country Club on November 13th (which, coincidentally, was my husband's & my 5th anniversary). Everyone at Dove CCC was wonderful to work with. They were extremely professional and helpful. The grounds are really beautiful; you can have an outdoor ceremony followed by hors d'ouevres and reception inside their gorgeous ballroom with spectacular views of the golf course. I'll post pictures of the Veturis-Coles wedding soon!

Contact Becky for more information: events@dovecanyonclub.com

A Marriage Made in Camelot

2010-11-23T14:29:00.000-08:00

For some reason I have always LOVED the Kennedy's. There is something magical about this family. Yes, they have had their scandals and what's commonly referred to as the Kennedy Curse, but despite all that (or maybe because of it) their memory lives on. Jackie Kennedy Onassis was a fashion icon every day, but especially on her wedding day. I remember seeing her wedding dress on display in a Boston museum when I was 12, and buying a postcard of the photo below for my bedroom wall.

Everything about this dress & veil is perfection.

Sources: The Blue Moon Wedding, Jacqueline Kennedy, Pink Slip Dress Boutique

Happy Birthday Joyce!

2010-11-23T14:28:00.000-08:00

Over the summer I had the privilege of coordinating Miss Joyce's 80th Birthday Party! It was so great seeing her with family & friends, celebrating her life. I pray that when I'm 80 my friends & family will have the same wonderful things to say about me that Joyce's said about her.

The Birthday Girl!

Joyce's daughter had this beautiful garden backyard, a perfect spot for a celebration.

A table full of memories...a hit with guests.

One of my favorite pictures of Joyce...adorable!

We discovered some other things that got their start in 1930...Snickers was one of them!

Delicious food provided by Ascent Events

Chip, owner & head chef at Ascent Events, made these amazing & enormous chocolate chip cookies as favors.

Hard at work setting out placecards

I also made the centerpieces

Cake provided by Ascent Events, additional desserts provided by family

Family Photo

Here's to many more birthdays, Joyce!

Photos by Mary Rosenbaum

The Princess Bride

2010-11-23T14:16:00.001-08:00

When you think of an iconic wedding, the first one that pops in your head is probably Princess Di and Prince Charles. While their lives were filled with scandal and Diana's ended in tragedy, they gave us priceless photos of a fabulous wedding, one that will inspire brides for years to come.

How'd you like to have a train this long?Or a cake this big?

Sources: The Wedding Tiara, Proposal Magazine, PVE Design, Clara's Designer Cakes

A Royal Engagement

2010-11-23T13:53:00.000-08:00

"The wait is over: Prince William and Kate Middleton, having been a couple on and off for eight years, are finally set to wed, they have announced.

While no date has been revealed, it is thought the ceremony will be held in a few months and be the biggest since William's mother, Diana, married Prince Charles.

'Everyone is absolutely delighted. He has never had eyes for any other woman since Kate came on the scene,' says an old friend. 'She is going to make a wonderful wife, a wonderful princess.'

Both the future bride and groom are 28." --People

Sketches of the bride's potential wedding dress

We can't all be Princess Brides, but we can live vicariously through Kate + William.

{real wedding} Heather + Matthew

2010-11-16T17:43:00.001-08:00

Michelle Noel took these beautiful pictures of Heather + Matthew's wedding day! September 18, 2010 was a gorgeous day for a wedding. Rancho Capistrano was the venue & Saddleback Church Food Services provided the food.

How cute is she??

Loved this cake! The video game theme was played out in their table names.

Stylin' groom

Beautiful bride

A great Father Daughter moment

Congrats Heather + Matthew!!

{real wedding} Fiona + Chris

2010-11-09T13:32:00.000-08:00

You've seen their engagement pictures, now check out their wedding day! Orange Turtle Photographers got some great shots. It was a stifling 90 degrees when they got married at 10am on 10-10-10, but their guests were troopers & had a great time! I got to work with Dalise Lindsay from Dalise Lindsay Events who did a fabulous job!

Caterer Spotlight: Ascent Events

2010-11-03T15:56:00.000-07:00

Looking for a caterer? Think you could never afford gourmet for your wedding? Ascent Events, owned & operated by Chip Bragg, is perfect for you. There's a menu for every budget and the food is perfection. Ascent Events is a one-stop shop; hors d'oeuvres, entree (buffet or plated), bar service, desserts, even your wedding cake! They've catered at Neverland Ranch (yes, THE Neverland, owned by Michael Jackson) as well as hundreds of private estates and public event venues. They are the exclusive caterer for events at the prestigious Villa Rockledge (see earlier post). You won't be disappointed!

Photos #1&2 by Ale Sura, photo #3 by Emily Arnold.

Venue Spotlight: Villa Rockledge

2010-11-03T13:56:00.000-07:00

I have an amazing venue to tell you about. Villa Rockledge is gorgeous, picturesque, beachy, museum-y, and exclusive. All things you want for your wedding or special event, right? Located in the heart of Laguna Beach, Villa Rockledge is a historical site with postcard-perfect views overlooking a private beach. An amazing team of event professionals is ready to create your spectacular event or wedding day. Catering is provided by Ascent Events. Contact Cynthia Sieloff at cynthia@villarockledge.com for more information!

View of the Villa from the beach below (oh yeah, that's my cute hubby & me)

One of the amazing views from the Villa

{real wedding} Amanda + Juan

2010-11-03T10:52:00.000-07:00

Yet another gorgeous wedding to share with you!! Amanda + Juan got married at Rancho Capistrano on a beautiful Southern California day. Their amazing photographer was Ale Sura. Delicious food provided by Ascent Events.

I LOVED Amanda's dress...

Very creative groomsmen gifts...personalized too!

Reading a note from his Bride...

A gift from her Groom...

Stunning Bride

Love this shot...so emotional & cute with the bridesmaids peeking through the door.

This should be on the cover of a magazine.

Great Father-Daughter moment.

Love this too!

Love this ring shot...I'd frame this one.

Gorgeous (& delicious!) cake by Ascent Events.

{engaged} Fiona + Chris

2010-10-15T10:11:00.000-07:00

I had the pleasure of working Fiona + Chris' 10.10.10 wedding at Rancho Capistrano. While we're waiting for their wedding pictures from Orange Turtle Photography, please enjoy their adorable engagement pics...they were even featured in San Diego Wedding Magazine (Fall 2010 issue)!

They love Scrabble...I think it's so cute when couples personalize their pictures with something they love.

{real wedding} Darlene + Rob

2010-10-14T12:49:00.001-07:00

Another gorgeous wedding! Darlene + Rob were the sweetest couple! (Don't I say that about them all? It's so true though!) They were married on August 28th at Rancho Capistrano and Broccardo Photography took these beautiful pictures. Delicious food provided by Ascent Events.

Gorgeous...

Beautiful florals from Lynne Lucente

Loved the comedy from this groomsman...

Usually I'm never in any of the pictures, but in these next 2 you can see me if you look real close...

{feature} Kristin + Robbie

2010-10-06T13:54:00.001-07:00

My friend Mary Rosenbaum just posted these pictures that she took at a wedding in Alys Beach, FL. I have never been there but after seeing these pictures it's on my list of places to visit! Everything about this wedding is perfection. It doesn't hurt that I love the beach & my favorite color is blue...so I might be a bit biased. Enjoy!

{real wedding} Holly + Adam

2010-10-06T13:28:00.001-07:00

Another amazing shoot from T&H Photography.

How cute is this dress? Love the removable skirt idea.

Location: Desert Springs Marriott, Palm Springs CA

{real wedding} Marci + Josh Part 2

2010-09-16T14:15:00.000-07:00

The first time I posted about Marci + Josh's wedding at Rancho Capistrano, I borrowed pictures from Blair Britt Events, who did a fabulous job styling this wedding. Here are the shots from the photographer, Hugh Forte. I think you'll be glad there's 2 posts for this one.

Beautiful florals from Bits of Whimsy

{real wedding} Kerran + Corey

2010-09-16T13:34:00.001-07:00

This was the second time I'd gotten to work with Marlin Munoz and while I loved Mary + Winston's wedding, there are just some details that I really loved on Kerran + Corey's Big Day. For example, the Bride's Rainbows! She's a girl after my own heart!

Love "First Looks"

Kerran's parents made their chuppah!

And this is why I love Marlin...he captured this shot! He only had the one chance & it turned out perfectly!

Kerran & Corey met while working at an aquatics center, so this captures their relationship perfectly. Plus it was about a zillion degrees outside so everyone (including me!) really wanted to jump in the pool.

I love Kerran's dress in this one

{real wedding} Lori + Ozzie

2010-09-16T13:01:00.001-07:00

Lori + Ozzie got married on May 15, 2010...their ceremony was at St. Catherine of Siena in Laguna Beach and I coordinated their reception at Rancho Capistrano. Let me just say, it was a beautiful day. Carly Daniel Photography says it all.

I love the dichotomy of this gnarled stump with their precious wedding bands

Their first dance was the salsa! So fun.